Love is not my topic of interest.But as reading and researching is my hobby I meet a lot of articles concerned with love.I don���t ignore them.Its that to hate sumthing u need to have a basic knowledge of that specific thing.Say for example to hate a hedgehog u need to know wut it really is.And it���s the knowledge that makes u decide wthr to hate it or love it.So heres sumthing that mite be of ur interest in order to enhance ur love life.I don���t remember where I found it but feels it may be a help 4 u ll so enjoy���..

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Sure, it���s a wonderful feeling to be swept up in a wave of love and giddiness, but that early rush of affection can lead some of us to do some pretty odd things. Things like thinking we���re in love after one or two dates... things like making summer vacation plans with a person we just met... and things like rearranging our whole schedule in case the object of our affection should be available for a cappuccino.Try to avoid the following mistakes .


#1: Believing that falling head-over-heels in love at first sight is best.
How to fix it: Flash-bang-wow chemistry is fun, but true love evolves over time���not through fleeting glances or over a few cocktails during one enchanted evening. ���I have a client who thinks that he has to have this immediate passionate connection with someone or he won���t go on a second date, which keeps him from possibly finding a good match,���. She suggests that if you���re still at least a little interested in the person, go out again. No one���s at their most natural state on a first date anyway, so you both benefit from another opportunity to chat. ���Love at first sight is a myth, and it���s important to give different kinds of people a chance,��� says Firestone. Being open to new experiences can be an important step on the path to finding a partner.

#2: Having sex early on in a dating relationship.
How to fix it: ���If you sleep with someone right away, it can be a problem later, because you���ve bypassed the phase of ���Tell me more about yourself��� and ���What do you like to do on Sundays?.���It feels weird to ruin comfort levels by asking such basic questions after you've gotten physically close.��� Puhn suggests that the next time you feel the urge for one night of fun, remind yourself that you can get unlimited nights of fun if you wait���without skipping any key getting-to-know-you steps. Set new timelines for yourself: Only after ten dates, a month, ten months, when you know you���re boyfriend-girlfriend���wutever marks a slow-it-down improvement for you. And making love or sex is the curiosity for most couples so if u make it too early ,u get pretty fed up of ur lover very soon.

#3: Falling for someone who���s taken.
How to fix it: ���Spoken-for people can be very attractive, because they���re often confident enough to flirt and you may be craving affection,��� You may get the attention you desire in the moment, but u also get the heartache of someone who is not free to be fully urs.��� No matter how much you say you don���t ���need��� a boyfriend or girlfriend who���s 100% there for you, the fact is, you do miss out when you settle for a partial partner. When you meet sumone ,In the first glance u mite not know he or she is already occupied or married or have got kids. You deserve someone who puts you first, so start auditioning mates who have long-term potential instead of devoting your time to one who���s proven he or she doesn���t. Try to find out whtr the person is single (meaning not only unmarried ,but who doesn���t have a girlfrnd or boyfrnd)because the sooner you know, the easier for you to get rid of.And inspite of knowing the person is already occupied and u want to maintain ur relationship lots and lots problems would arise and u mite be blamed for destroying multiple relationships where he or she is involved.So don���t get cursed from others while chasing ur love.

#4: Not letting people know you���re seriously looking.
How to fix it: When you���re tired of being single, appealing to your friends for help can seem like an act of desperation. ���Blind dates can be scary and uncomfortable, but it's a lot more uncomfortable to sit at home on a Friday night feeling depressed and lonely,��� says a damsel. In fact, asking for introductions makes you feel proactive in your search for a mate, and it dispels any shame you might have about being solo. You���ll feel more positive and happy about dating, an attitude that will be attractive to others when you do schedule a date. So make a fresh start by telling your friends that you'd like to be set up. Even if they don���t know anyone right for you, once you���ve mentioned that you���re looking, you���re bound to score yourself more invites to parties, girls���/guys��� nights out, and other social events where you could meet, well, anyone.

#5: Ignoring red flags (even if the person waving them is otherwise amazing).
How to fix it: Have you ever found yourself thinking, ���He���s great, even if he does drink waaaay too much,��� or ���She���s sexy; so what if she works for me?��� When you���re smitten, it���s easy to overlook issues that threaten the very basis of a future serious relationship, but when you do, you���re sabotaging your shot at said serious relationship. ���Every time you date someone with an issue you have to work to ignore, you���re settling,��� says Paries. A better option? When red flags pop up, talk about them. Ask questions. Honestly decide if the baggage at hand is a deal-breaker for what you want long-term, and make the hard (but smart) choice to stop dating if that is the case. If someone isn���t ready for a relationship, has substance abuse issues, or is not a good prospect in another vital way, you are wasting your time if you pursue this person romantically. ���If you can, keep the friendship,��� says Paries. ���You never know when a friend of a friend might be perfect for you.��� And that���s because when it comes to the game of love, setting your priorities ��� and sticking with them ��� can pay off in ways you never expected.

Ps:don���t appreciate me for this article as the tips are not from me(bt I have edited sum as they are not suitable for our culture and I have depicted my own views in sum areas.. ..Wutever u can comment how u feel abt them.And we may discuss the Pros and Cons ..dho ..ciao dems